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Babies not as innocent as they pretend
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By Richard Gray, Science Correspondent

Whether lying about raiding the biscuit tin or denying they broke a toy, all children try to mislead their parents at some time. Yet it now appears that babies learn to deceive from a far younger age than anyone previously suspected.

Behavioural experts have found that infants begin to lie from as young as six months. Simple fibs help to train them for more complex deceptions in later life.

Until now, psychologists had thought the developing brains were not capable of the difficult art of lying until four years old.

Following studies of more than 50 children and interviews with parents, Dr Vasudevi Reddy, of the University of Portsmouth's psychology department, says she has identified seven categories of deception used between six months and three-years-old.

Infants quickly learnt that using tactics such as fake crying and pretend laughing could win them attention. By eight months, more difficult deceptions became apparent, such as concealing forbidden activities or trying to distract parents' attention.

By the age of two, toddlers could use far more devious techniques, such as bluffing when threatened with a punishment.

Dr Reddy said: "Fake crying is one of the earliest forms of deception to emerge, and infants use it to get attention even though nothing is wrong. You can tell, as they will then pause while they wait to hear if their mother is responding, before crying again.

"It demonstrates they're clearly able to distinguish that what they are doing will have an effect. This is essentially all adults do when they tell lies, except in adults it becomes more morally loaded."

She added: "Later it becomes more sophisticated by saying, 'I don't care' when threatened with a punishment - when they clearly do."

Dr Reddy thinks children use early fibs to discover what kinds of lie work in certain situations, and also learn the negative consequences of lying too much. 

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Richard,
I like this article, if psychiatrists only realized that we are all born with a mind-pattern, it would make their job so much easier. As a mother I can tell you that the hardest thing to teach a child is truth, to send out the philosophy if you tell the truth you do not need to depend on memory. Babies are manipulative but how can you resist picking them up when they cry, my youngest daughter was a terrible sleeper, she just wanted cuddles all the time, at the center where I took her to be weighed etc, the head nurse told me to stick her in a room and let her cry, please why would I do such a thing? This is what they tell modern mothers, the new text for childcare is infant separation, to intensify our greatest fear- isolation.
The childhood is the stepping stones to our adult mind-pattern, it is how we acquire our pattern of behavioral thoughts and if we learn to lie and deceive, adulthood becomes a very big challenge. Children learn to lie at grade school just to fit in with others, it is sad but a part of life. children are so advanced it can be scary.
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Interesting quote Astro - ...this is what they tell modern mothers, the new text for childcare is infant separation, to intensify our greatest fear- isolation.


Now I'm not a parent as you know, but it seems to me to intensify FEAR in our children would be a critical mistake, as it starts programming fear into them.

Or maybe your daughter saw you and realized "my mother's a blonde!"

:-)
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 Last night some news show i was watching was telling how children should not even see a TV until past 2 years old!  If only they would replay that show everyday! ;)
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I agree William, and even when the children get a little older it really is a parents obligation to monitor what the child is watching on TV or DVD.

Crystalsun, very funny!
We all feel separation when we are born; it takes the spirit a great amount of energy to go through the process, and all babies want is hugs and comfort. yes, It is part of programming as it intensifies the energy of aloneness and we all feel that at some time. if you energetically absorb the energy as a bub, imagine how it amplifies as you grow.
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