I know my handler....what next?

[Rod]

Hi all, after many years, my wife got a visual of who my handler was, and damn, I should have worked it out myself, but yeah, she is right.

So I have to consider what to do, I don't want to disconnect as we are good friends and have been for nearly 2 years now, but I do realise he triggered me at times in the past, however now that I'm aware of this, what do I do.

His only contact with me is via MSN Messenger, do I stick the merger symbol as my avatar when I talk to him or put a brown X over his avatar or what?

Thanks in advance!

Rodrigo

[Astrojewels]

Ah rod, to handle the handler! This does not happen often but when it does it is like a massive breakthrough, and your first reaction is ‘I don’t want to disconnect as we are good friends’, this is how you have been handled in the first place.
Firstly lets just go over some points that are imperative for the handler, in able to handle a person one must structure a cord of emotional connection through the heart chakra, this is usually done before meeting your handler, so on first impression you feel you know them, and you instantly get along without any doubt.
Secondly, you feel secure around this person and tend to tell them private things about your life, and they support and never judge you, you feel a type of protection from the person. If it a male, it will form like brothers and if a female you feel a mother affect.
Once realizing that this person is manipulating you and not really protecting you, where do you begin? Firstly this person does not know how to deal with you if you become more independently intellectual, so when you begin to question your handler or indicate that you are more self-regulating, this will trigger a great deal of energy. I can tell you now it will be an emotional roller coaster, and your handler already has the tools on how to make you feel the guilt, take on the blame and also make you feel totally ridiculous like you are not right, so be prepared.
I do not know anyone who has remained friends with their handlers after disconnecting that cord of emotional bondage, but the first technique you can start to do is visualize that cord between you both, it will be a triple bind, so imagine a rope that is entwined three times, this number is important. And begin to undo the cord, bit by bit, as it will not be an overnight procedure, you can use violet scissors.
You need to tell your wife, because she will have to be the one to inform you that you are being triggered because you will not always be aware of it, be cautious and analytical. Brown x will do nothing to this connection.
Happy birthday to P, hope it was a good one.

[BlueMoon]

AJ, your explanation makes a lot of sense. I have a question though.

Is a Handler sometimes a person in our life who is not aware they are our handler. I've heard some people refer to a husband or father or mother as their handler. If this is the case, they could be prgrammed to manipulate us but not consciously know they are doing it.

[Rod]

Astro, thanks for writing, you know, I was spun out and EVERYTHING you described, he actually does, and he has military type mentality, police authority type persona, and he works as a security guard.

I will do the exercise you mentioned, its a shame, because he has taught me a lot of independence, but could be a mascaraed as well.

Its interesting, he calls me 'brother' and we do have that sort of connection too, and he does protect me as well! Everything you have said is spot on.

Also what is interesting, he has dropped off the face of the earth in the last 8 weeks since I have been 'activated' per say, only every so often does he come online.

I started un-twining, and using violet scissors.

P's birthday was awesome, 33 and well, what a roller coaster since!

[Astrojewels]

Bluemoon,
Yes we usually have a parent handler, and no they are not always working for the agenda, they may be programmed to program you, the idea of a parent handler is to shut down any internal power that you are born with, children are strong and spiritually connected, and with enough words or force this can break their little spirits. However the strong genetic bond of child/parent and the energy of handler can be broken and the relationship can take on a whole different concept, the child must face the fear that the parent has instilled and the parent must release the need to control that child. I have worked with many people that have overcome this and have a great relationship with that parent. The other thing to is that a soul may be attracted to a parent that will enforce a pattern of fear that is within the soul personality before birth and that parent is the key to empowering that fear.

Rod,
When it is a friend, the person usually has entered your life for a specific purpose, and this is why the situation becomes very emotional because you feel abused, but I can only say that this friend is disconnecting because he knows on the higher level that you have activated this awareness, and silence is a weapon that is used as a defense because you are left wondering. Just know that after this process it will make you more independently stronger, so be prepared for that because being dependent on others is not a weakness but it can make you fragile. If you focus on what you will receive after it all comes out, please trust me when I tell you that it will change many things in your life for the better. If you feel down don’t focus on that moment, focus on the fact that you ‘tuned’ in on a higher level therefore you are advancing and sometimes that means we must leave friends behind.
Stay strong and glad P had a great day.

[Oneruledbymars]

Astrojewels-
How does this work with Astrology?
For instance if someone like me has Moon conjunct Neptune in there chart. The moon=mother/past and Neptune=spirituality. I have a Mom who is a devout Christian and raised me to be the same way and got upset and tried to guilt me (and still does) when I refused to be apart of the Religion any longer. Clearly she was programmed to program me.
I guess what I am saying is that my Natal Chart also shows a connection between my Mom and my Spirituality, that there would be an association with the Mother image, symbol and real parent. It also implies a close bonding with your mother and shows an important influence over your development from her, but, as with romantic relationships, illusions can be present. Do our Programmers actually work with our Astrological charts before we are born to ensure that the situations we encounter Energy wise as mapped out in our Natal charts are compatible with there programming?
Am I even making sense right now? lol

[Astrojewels]

Oneruledbymars,

I understand your question, was your mother programmed to program you? I can not answer that with a few placements.

Our parents are our first programmers, some are programmed to program, but more commonly our parents are genetically programmed to program, and really have no conscious idea of what they are doing, and the connection could be that you are here to also guide her.

It is very rare that programmers work with your chart before birth, this would only happen on a pregnancy that was enforced like a moon child or a child born in ritual etc.

Pregnancy sends out a vibrational frequency to souls, and we do not just choose anyone, we select our parents for some reason, and it is not always a good one! However, your mind pattern resonated with your parents and you chose that destination, and they accepted.

Most people are born into families with programming threads, (so common factors), and when the child begins activation around 12-15 yrs old, this is like throwing fuel on the fire.

 

[Shadowlady]

[user=148]Astrojewels[/user] wrote:

It is very rare that programmers work with your chart before birth, this would only happen on a pregnancy that was enforced like a moon child or a child born in ritual etc.

-Ive heard that the premature born babies are ussualy programed
  If yes, how is that possible, to program un unborn? With frequencies or through the mother or ?

[Oneruledbymars]

Gotcha. Thanks, that makes sense Astrojewels.
Im probably gonna be aggravating the hair off of you, as I began to absorb all the knowledge this place has to offer.

(just warning you ahead of time to shooo me if I get to annoying. *wink)
:)

[Astrojewels]

Shadowlady,

Some premature babies are programmed though frequency, but mostly through targeting the mother and this is by frequency which attacks their emotions; pregnancy ‘naturally’ creates the body’s hormones to be unbalanced, add some more drama, drugs, abuse, etc and you have an unborn child that is emotionally traumatized.

Generally, the process of programming a premature baby is through the trauma of premature birth, the fear, and emotions and waiting for the baby to become strong, the child is born with a start that is a battle! That is enough to get the ball rolling.

 

Oneruledbymars,

I have plenty of hair!