02-12-2006, 01:43 PM
I think your "friend" got angry because he could not control himself--like you said he is probably fragmented and in dire need of self reintegration. So because he could not control himself or have power over himself, he thought he had power over you and when he saw that you werer going on your own way, becoming your true self, realizing who you are, making your own decisions,etc, he probably realized he was losing you(and you reflect parts of himself that he had thought he had control over), he was frustrated and angry about it. He probably switched into his angry alters from my understanding. I don't know..I'm just assuming. What do you think? Does this help? We need to put our friends and parents and former handlers on the forgiveness altar....I hope I can achieve a complete visualization today...I think a part of me is sabotaging myself from doing forgiveness altar and green spiral staircase. If we do these exercises, we can attain more steps in unshackling ourselves from the bonds of people we no longer share a purpose with...and we can become freer to experience again!!