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[karen]

DreamTime, I do think it's possible to significantly minimize if not  end the cycle of genetic programming .

How can one end the cycle? Is it only by not having children?

[Astrojewels]

No, you do not need to ‘not’ have children, you only need to ‘acknowledge’ the energy behind what affected you and only then can you change it, but in large programmed families this is nearly impossible because you have so many energies intertwining.

You should start with yourself, because you know your childhood cycle better than anyone, my mother was like a raging bull, and she taught us to not ask questions, just enforce authority and that will give you respect, but this is basic fear!

[karen]

Thanks for your answer, AJ. :)

I certainly understand the intertwined, tangled energies: they're like tentacles either holding or keeping one in place, unable to move freely, I'd say even to think independently... Yes, do as you're told and never question what you're "taught". I suppose even being "rewarded" (by not being disciplined)  if one "behaves". I see that clearly. What child doubts they're parents?

[Astrojewels]

Well, no child doubts their parents, and being a parent is a very big responsibility which does not come with an instruction book! The programming is just like tentacles, and the head of the octopus keeps them all separate but connected by manipulation and love, and this is what I am talking when it comes to ‘reacting’, because the most complex negative attribute of programmed families is the lack of communication they have, it is just does not come natural.

Love and hate works simultaneously.

[DreamTime]

I don't know if his not having children would break the cycle, but he wanted his father's name to end. That is just the way he feels about it and his upbringing. But his father had brothers and I'm sure that some of them have the name still going, so he is not going to get his wish on that one. But I'm pretty sure that his brother will not have children either, as he is about my age and he is still not married nor does he have any serious woman in his life. But, his one sister had one child (out of wedlock) and his other sister had two children (both from different father's) (all boys, by the way), so in a way, the line goes on. They are all still very dysfunctional - in my opinion - but my family is a very complicated story.

[Astrojewels]

Not having children can break the cycle, however it is not that simple, but even when a female gets married and takes on a different name, which does change her frequency, the core programming is always there, I do not think an entire family can achieve deprogramming, there is extreme emotions involved, and the dysfunction is played on DT, that is how they are kept under the radar of manipulation.

They all have opinions of each other, and the funny thing in these programmed families is they all ‘think’ they are different from each other, but they are so alike and for that reason alone, they can not work together to overcome such enforcement. The simple things in life are the most difficult.