09-19-2009, 05:24 PM
Apologizing is becoming popular in our modern world, we are seeing more of it from governments, law enforcement and large corporations, but in our everyday world when is an apology acceptable or not?
The dictionary translates the world ââ¬Ëapologizeââ¬â¢ as - an excuse for some fault! Besides being bombarded by manipulated frequencies, ELF or just the everyday stress that our world now has, what are the other reasons for behavior that later requires you to apologize, and what is the limit where you can actually make these excuses.
When is it too late or is it ever too late?
If you have someone in your life that is continually nasty, aggressive or just plain rude, but they apologize, does this make it right? Well I do not think so, we all have mad days where our limits are pushed and we tend to enter a ââ¬Ëbad moodââ¬â¢ but is it right to take it out on others?
We are triggered, which does structure a personality that we can not seem to control, but analyzing this behavior after is certainly the key to controlling the triggers that you may encounter.
Then there are those who would never apologize, they would never admit that they were at fault and the blame would be thrown, so itââ¬â¢s your fault for the way they behaved, so you need to not get them mad in the first place! What!!!!!
I think an apology is acceptable when it is an honest mistake and non-intentional, but I do see a pattern that people are becoming more aggressive and this is continual, they apologize to whoever, but before you know it, they are doing it again, and can they ever get out of this cycle?
I also believe that each individual must take responsibility for uncalled behavior, therefore no excuse is required, just that you regret what you have done, because making excuses is throwing blame, and not taking the responsibility for your behavior?
What are your thoughts on this? Anyone
The dictionary translates the world ââ¬Ëapologizeââ¬â¢ as - an excuse for some fault! Besides being bombarded by manipulated frequencies, ELF or just the everyday stress that our world now has, what are the other reasons for behavior that later requires you to apologize, and what is the limit where you can actually make these excuses.
When is it too late or is it ever too late?
If you have someone in your life that is continually nasty, aggressive or just plain rude, but they apologize, does this make it right? Well I do not think so, we all have mad days where our limits are pushed and we tend to enter a ââ¬Ëbad moodââ¬â¢ but is it right to take it out on others?
We are triggered, which does structure a personality that we can not seem to control, but analyzing this behavior after is certainly the key to controlling the triggers that you may encounter.
Then there are those who would never apologize, they would never admit that they were at fault and the blame would be thrown, so itââ¬â¢s your fault for the way they behaved, so you need to not get them mad in the first place! What!!!!!
I think an apology is acceptable when it is an honest mistake and non-intentional, but I do see a pattern that people are becoming more aggressive and this is continual, they apologize to whoever, but before you know it, they are doing it again, and can they ever get out of this cycle?
I also believe that each individual must take responsibility for uncalled behavior, therefore no excuse is required, just that you regret what you have done, because making excuses is throwing blame, and not taking the responsibility for your behavior?
What are your thoughts on this? Anyone