Blondes 'are more aggressive than brunettes'

[Astrojewels]

I am not surprised that so many people think this way, we live in a very narrow minded world, but the other side- there are many women that have the looks and purposely pretend to be dense because men are suckers for ‘dumb blondes’… but if you have to actually prove your intelligence then I think the problem actually resides within and not the stereotype mentality.   

[leah]

I've never had to prove my intelligence, just it was harder to be taken seriously or it took them longer to notice as they didn't think I could be smart lol

[Astrojewels]

Leah, you should not allow anyone to treat you that way, when you know what you are capable of, demand it, not through your voice, but through your spirit and you will never have to endure someone looking at your ladies while you are speaking.. I have a friend who is incredibly beautiful, blonde and all that, and she is also the most direct person I know, she has said many times to men, hey look up here, my ladies don’t talk…this really brings them to reality, because when you let them away with it, you are also accepting it…

[leah]

You've read a bit much into what I said, I never once said people spoke to my chest but thanks lol xx

[Mercy Now]

Having the same dilemma since my teens AJ I will say that in my experience  the ladies do indeed get spoken too.

 On another note.....  It's been my observation that people with blue eyes are taken less seriously in general.

[Tyson]

ive noticed that,over here, girls of all haircolor obsess over sex. AND it is very uncommon to find a open minded intelligent female young adult. its the older ladies that are better they dont all just want your peanuts. i do blame the media for this obsession.

[leah]

I blame men for that, a lot of young men speak to young women like toys, pieces of meat and the only way a young woman can grab the attention of a young male is to express herself more sexually.

[Octahedron]

I blame men for that, a lot of young men speak to young women like toys, pieces of meat and the only way a young woman can grab the attention of a young male is to express herself more sexually.

I guess with the help of a cell-phone ?  Times are changed. 

All young people that I see now, are electronic zombies with add-on equipment.

[Astrojewels]

Sorry Leah I did read into it wrong, I assumed that’s what you meant by this-

[user=1344]leah[/user] wrote:

Yes AstroJewels, I am petite with an ample chest too so it all went against me. Stereotypes eh? xx

[Astrojewels]

All young people that I see now, are electronic zombies with add-on equipment.

  

 Octahedron, this is stereotyping, I agree the younger generations are complex but I know many personally that are wonderful and intelligent.

 

 

MN,

It looks like I am totally in the ‘don’t take serious’ category. Blue eyes blonde hair! LOL.