Help dealing with a strange Person

[Astrojewels]

Andrea,
Classic Virgo energy, you need a plan! An analytical plan, your answers are always in your questions, this is why I love working with Virgo energy. What lesson? Well I can see many; Virgo’s are just not comfortable with confrontation and ‘not knowing’.
It sounds like you love the location, and you are correct, you can not let go while you are in the middle of the confrontation that is a big ask. But you do have to analytically think and prepare what you can do, you have to ask yourself “can you work it out, can you live near this man for years to come? Just because you love the house?
All I can suggest is re-ground self, go outside and hug a tree. Then sit down with your family and write down what it is you all want in a house and on a list.
1. 4 bedroom
2. 2 bathrooms
3. large yard etc.

Never question your desires, universal laws will always provide your deepest needs, there will be no plan, a house will just be there for you all to move into, but if you put all your energy into this man, you will stay longer than you desire because you love that house. I understand that this man is completely irrational, but you can let go of the dreams you had for that house, that is what is keeping you there.

[Andrea]

AstroJewels-
Im giving YOU a big hug right now!!!!!!!!:)
Thanks again for your wisdom.

[GertrudaRose]

Andrea, I really feel for you.  I once had a boss like this man and discovered that when I quit responding the way he wanted me to he finally gave up and quit harrassing me.  It's like Mistress said - keep your calm and just smile at him.  He is hoping that his actions will ruffle your feathers, or why would he do such things!  Therefore, if you don't react (at least as far as he knows) it may get boring for him and he'll just stop when he realizes he isn't controlling you.

I send you peace. icon_ohmcandle

[Get Boldened]

I'm just commenting to wish you luck. I know you're a good person who deserves better people in your life. Take cares.

[Andrea]

Thank you ALL so much.
Something told me I would find the peace of mind I needed through this forum. Its amazing the comfort I have gotten reading all of your words.

[Astrojewels]

So now you feel better within Andrea, how are things going day to day?

[Andrea]

Yesterday I was depressed about the situation. Today I am hopeful. Again the posts you all left were very uplifting and helped me alot. Right now I have no idea what is going to happen. I have just been trying to be proactive and make calls and look for a new opportunity. Im going to try and stay positive from here on out. I took your advice and I have been imagining us in a new house & happy.

[Astrojewels]

Andrea,
There is an automatic switch inside all humans that constantly ask ‘why and how’? Our need to know is why we are here on earth, but below the surface of your skin and organs is the soul-personality and it is that energy that sets your path. You know you are a good person who cares, gives and loves, you know you deserve to be happy, therefore it is times like now that test that belief, life is a balance of negative/positive and so often we are challenged by those who we do not want to become but do become because we are entrapped into their energy field.
You have already battled the most difficult of your challenge, so now all you need to do is wait, and not question how it will happen, it will because you deserve it.
Universal energy is within each of us, it is just a matter of flowing with it, the more you question, the more questions that will arise, just know some day soon that a ‘freak’ occurrence will happen and this will all be a memory.
Also this is a test to your family because you are all being manipulated by this energy; therefore as the teacher and guide of your students (your children) this is a way for you to show them how to deal with the negative in the world, because your children chose you as their guide through emotional obstacle, and your children are our future.
Glad to hear you are on a positive flow, keep going with it.

[Andrea]

:)

[Astrojewels]

Andrea,
A week has passed how are things going? Your birthday has provided you to begin a new frequency have you felt any changes? Keep us posted.