Is The Secret teaching's easy to understand?

[Astrojewels]

Thank you for your kind words and support, a video Richard, I am very camera shy!
I really liked the secret when I first watched it, I understand that a DVD can only run a short time and the whole concept was great but many people were left unsure about the true meaning of the universal laws - energy.
Trinity, I am happy to see you have changed your energy with your desires, please keep us informed when this energy begins to manifest, we love positivism here on hyperspacecafe.

[Trinity]

Thank you for your kind words and support, a video Richard, I am very camera shy!
I really liked the secret when I first watched it, I understand that a DVD can only run a short time and the whole concept was great but many people were left unsure about the true meaning of the universal laws - energy.
Trinity, I am happy to see you have changed your energy with your desires, please keep us informed when this energy begins to manifest, we love positivism here on hyperspacecafe.

Thank you! Actually it led me to study energy again in a whole new light-if you pardon the pun.

They did begin to manifest and my scientific mind wanted to know how. Its opened up a whole new world for me!

[Astrojewels]

When you are specific, what choice does the universe have but to respond. I love talking about energy, it is my favorite topic, if there is anything I can help with trinity, please ask away.

I see you are in the business of guiding others; I would have to say that most people are misguided when desiring a partner, why? people in general say basically that they ‘just want someone to share their life” so this call goes out to the universal energies, think of the universal energy being an editor of your work, picking up the main words of your sentence “just” “someone” “share” , so usually that person will get to “share with just someone”.

It is no ones fault, we are programmed to think like this from an early, and the education department brainwashes us to dominate the left side of our brain. Therefore we become dependent on what is in black and white, rather than what we know universally.

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Astrojewels, I have a painful jaw condition on both sides of my head. The lower jaw is out of alignment with the rest of my skull. It's called, TMJ, and it gets worse at night in my sleep when I would clench my teeth unconsciously. It actually started during sleep on the same day my dad yelled at me. While he wanted to physically assault me for not getting straight A's in school, I couldn't yell back from feeling shock that my father would be so inhuman about schoolgrades. And that caused strong tension that I believe is responsible for the night sleep clenching, which only worsened TMJ.

How do I phrase my affirmation to get a healing miracle for the TMJ (and perhaps night clenching?)? My specific reason would be to be more effective when I do stuff and not be distracted by the misaligned jaws.

Thanks...

[Trinity]

When you are specific, what choice does the universe have but to respond. I love talking about energy, it is my favorite topic, if there is anything I can help with trinity, please ask away.

I see you are in the business of guiding others; I would have to say that most people are misguided when desiring a partner, why? people in general say basically that they ‘just want someone to share their life” so this call goes out to the universal energies, think of the universal energy being an editor of your work, picking up the main words of your sentence “just” “someone” “share” , so usually that person will get to “share with just someone”.

It is no ones fault, we are programmed to think like this from an early, and the education department brainwashes us to dominate the left side of our brain. Therefore we become dependent on what is in black and white, rather than what we know universally.

Its true we are guided to find a partner...but of course law of attraction gives us what we are. We attract someone incomplete and still growing like ourselves in the mis guided notion it will make us complete.

As you so rightly say we are taught solely to use our left hand side of the brain which stops up thinking from the heart and using intuition as to what is really best for us.

We have been cut off from our true nature and raised from childhood as separate beings. I aim to guide my children differently to that. I want my children to grow into people that use both sides of the brain as I try to do. In that way I hope that when they want a partner they can make a choice based on what they want-and if they chose to be alone as I am them thats fine too.

I also love talking about energy so this may be a long thread :) I have spent the last few years trying to be VERY specific in what I "ask" for. I have seen the literal nature of the law of attraction last time I asked for a partner. I learned very quickly nobody can make me happy except myself. I attracted someone who made me happy sometimes then sad for most of the other times. Of course another reflection of how I was at the time.

 

I am asking now for ways to make myself happy-finally content to be alone. I no longer subscribe to the view that I need someone to make me happy as I did that far too often.

 

[Astrojewels]

GB,

I am sorry to hear that your father is so dominant, yet there must be purpose with this relationship.

Affirmations will help but you do need to get to the core of the energy that has been structured between the parent/child relationship. The jaw is the physical bridge with communication, eating and swallowing, so it’s physical purpose is ‘flexibility’, you began this ailment with absorbing your fathers inflexibility and rage. To mend, you must repair the point of entry. You must look at all the reasons why your father pushes you; do you want to achieve academically? Or do you do this to please him? Do you personally care about your grades? Did your father achieve academically? If yes he is trying to mould you to him. If not, he is pushing you from fear. The other thing is that when a child gets to adult age, the parent looses control, and this process of transformation is very difficult, I can tell you from personal experience, letting go is not easy.

To repair the bridge, find a common thread, what do you have in common, I am sure you will say nothing, but focus on what your father does in a positive energy. Has he provided a nice home, does he treat your mother well, is he a hard worker, do you have food everyday? It has hard for one generation to understand another, yet you belong to a generation that is spiritually awakened more than any before you, so you must be the strong one and put down the weapon of defense. These ‘close to home’ relationships push us to our limits of ego, but learn not to take offence to his words pointed towards you, do not argue back, do not react. Silent power is a great weapon, when an individual must yell, dominate and control they have inner issues of fear, you do not have to absorb this.

 My suggestions – when your father is angry, put yourself in a protective dome, connect to higher self to protect your physical need to react with ego. All that your father projects at you will only rebound back to him, you will no longer absorb his frustration. Send him love while he is trying to control. Try[/b] to express with words; gratitude to the things he does in a positive way, tell him you are thankful for his input etc, after he has cooled down. Our sorrows and wounds are healed when we touch them with compassion.

 Affirmations –

1. I let go of inflexibility, I am[/b] a compassionate communicator.

2. I set free this physical pain that locks my bridge of communication; I no longer hold and bare the pain of my father’s inflexibility.   

[Astrojewels]

 

Trinity,

This is true, you need not ask for someone to make you happy, because when you are happy, a partner will be attracted to that energy that you project. Therefore you will be the beacon for the ships in the night, yet let me say when you are spiritually awakened you will tend to attract someone who requires your strength, often love comes with a catch 22. but this is what makes life so interesting and fulfilling. We can only grow through our challenges or it would all be easy and boring.

Cheers

[Trinity]

 

Trinity,

This is true, you need not ask for someone to make you happy, because when you are happy, a partner will be attracted to that energy that you project. Therefore you will be the beacon for the ships in the night, yet let me say when you are spiritually awakened you will tend to attract someone who requires your strength, often love comes with a catch 22. but this is what makes life so interesting and fulfilling. We can only grow through our challenges or it would all be easy and boring.

Cheers

Yes I did attract someone needing strength as you say. I would imagine the key is to attract someone who wishes to grow as I am?

[Astrojewels]

Trinity,
Yes, I agree to attract someone like that but there is a need to find ‘who you are’ and what is your position in life. I believe that we humans are divided into those who require support and those who provide support, yet both are equally daunting. Because needing support often puts you in relationships that enhance the victim mentality and the opposite is becoming over dominant. Ego and opinion does prevail our naturally ability with tolerance and compassion.
Being a supporter does require you to have control of your emotions, and not feel that you have been betrayed once that person no longer needs your guidance, because once the supported has reassurance to their inner strength, then they can go on and become a supporter, if we all did this the world would certainly change.
Please share how you enhanced this persons natural ability to shine their own light, love hearing about it.

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Thanks Astrojewels. You factored in so many things that closely matches my life, it makes me feel like you are a professional I can trust. Somehow everything was put into perspective; My dad was probably enraged and inflexible with his life because of his lost childhood and now harsh parenthood, and his ego is threatened that I would somehow make the same mistake. He also is probably inflexible right now, for being stuck in his adult role, and at the same time, being unappreciated.