08-01-2006, 05:38 PM
In an astrological profile, the planets are divided to personal and outer energies. The personal planets are - Sun, Moon, Mercury, Venus and Mars.[/b] The outer planets are -Jupiter, Uranus, Neptune, Pluto and Saturn[/b]. Each one has a purpose, and is a segment to your matrix of characteristics. The Moon[/b] is the fastest moving energy in the astrology chart. It is here where the inner self exists, your emotions, and displays the connection to mother.
Mommie dearest is the first chapter of your memoirs, and if you have issues, you are not alone, 95% of the population join you. Why would you choose her? Does victim mentality create a need for a roller coaster ride with emotional trauma?-The bond of mother/child can not be broken; it is this relationship that has intense substance, and usually holds your greatest obstacles for self-worth.
If you have decided to begin the life-long voyage of self-discovery, it is here that you must begin. Release work is essential; however you can not just generate a connection without first understanding the ââ¬Ëhowââ¬â¢s and whyââ¬â¢sââ¬â¢.
Firstly, you must step out of the emotional attachment in order to look at the situation ââ¬Ëlogicallyââ¬â¢. Where did your relationship sour ââ¬â birth, adolescence or adulthood. Have you considered her obstacles- was she happy with your father, was she a single mother, is she a migrant, her financial situation, her parents, her era, her programming and do other people like her? She was once your age, and also confused about life, she did not come with instructions on how to be a parent. Just like you did not come with instructions on how to be a child.
You must begin with your individual relationship, the greatest obstacles that you both have toward each other. Also, do you really want to connect with her? Or is your victim mentality using her as an excuse for your own disappointments and failures. Honesty is essential in release work or it will fail.
My own experience I created my relationship with the analogy of a ââ¬ËTreeââ¬â¢. The seed[/b] ââ¬âMy birth, we had equal dislike for one another. My trunk[/b]- she is a Scottish Gemini, my father, an English Aquarian, and it was in their DNA to construct war with one another. The branches [/b]ââ¬â grew from my own misunderstanding of what my mother had to deal with, and how it created her to seem selfish to her own needs. The fruit[/b] ââ¬â bitter and poisonous.
Many years I consciously ignored the situation, avoided her and even stopped communication. Having my own children, I realized how extremely hard parenting is. I was a complicated child, I now understand why! The truth was my mother had incredible strength to deal with what she did, and I just wanted to ââ¬Ëthrow blameââ¬â¢.
I began with a journal; I got out the chainsaw and cut down my tree to the ground, and began to grow a new tree. Our relationship now blossoms, we have our moments but we are different personalities, we never fight and that is the main purpose that I wanted to accomplish, we enjoy each others company. That is an achievement! Her friends tell her that she now glows; she has changed and become more relaxed, they think it is age, but it is oversoul energy in motion.
Mommie dearest is the first chapter of your memoirs, and if you have issues, you are not alone, 95% of the population join you. Why would you choose her? Does victim mentality create a need for a roller coaster ride with emotional trauma?-The bond of mother/child can not be broken; it is this relationship that has intense substance, and usually holds your greatest obstacles for self-worth.
If you have decided to begin the life-long voyage of self-discovery, it is here that you must begin. Release work is essential; however you can not just generate a connection without first understanding the ââ¬Ëhowââ¬â¢s and whyââ¬â¢sââ¬â¢.
Firstly, you must step out of the emotional attachment in order to look at the situation ââ¬Ëlogicallyââ¬â¢. Where did your relationship sour ââ¬â birth, adolescence or adulthood. Have you considered her obstacles- was she happy with your father, was she a single mother, is she a migrant, her financial situation, her parents, her era, her programming and do other people like her? She was once your age, and also confused about life, she did not come with instructions on how to be a parent. Just like you did not come with instructions on how to be a child.
You must begin with your individual relationship, the greatest obstacles that you both have toward each other. Also, do you really want to connect with her? Or is your victim mentality using her as an excuse for your own disappointments and failures. Honesty is essential in release work or it will fail.
My own experience I created my relationship with the analogy of a ââ¬ËTreeââ¬â¢. The seed[/b] ââ¬âMy birth, we had equal dislike for one another. My trunk[/b]- she is a Scottish Gemini, my father, an English Aquarian, and it was in their DNA to construct war with one another. The branches [/b]ââ¬â grew from my own misunderstanding of what my mother had to deal with, and how it created her to seem selfish to her own needs. The fruit[/b] ââ¬â bitter and poisonous.
Many years I consciously ignored the situation, avoided her and even stopped communication. Having my own children, I realized how extremely hard parenting is. I was a complicated child, I now understand why! The truth was my mother had incredible strength to deal with what she did, and I just wanted to ââ¬Ëthrow blameââ¬â¢.
I began with a journal; I got out the chainsaw and cut down my tree to the ground, and began to grow a new tree. Our relationship now blossoms, we have our moments but we are different personalities, we never fight and that is the main purpose that I wanted to accomplish, we enjoy each others company. That is an achievement! Her friends tell her that she now glows; she has changed and become more relaxed, they think it is age, but it is oversoul energy in motion.
