10-27-2006, 11:39 AM
Polly, I agree-maybe this is a situation we all need to look at within ourselves.
I see how maybe this situation might reflect me:
Perhaps I have been chasing too many people and now must withdraw to study relationships with myself(Oversoul and God) and then my relationships with the world and external environment. I need to validate myself and I don't need to rely on others too much to validate me once this is done. Maybe this will help me to find increased understanding in how my heart chakra energies work and possibly I could heal this a bit more. I know I am loved to a certain degree by a handful of people but it is I who needs to love and respect myself more to develop inner strength of my spirit. I know I will learn how to use my energies better and perhaps not only love myself more but love others too....meaning I will be able to accept and acknowledge all aspects of myself and thus be able to do the same with others...see what they are reflecting back at me and not be so reactive to them if they show me something about themselves that I may judge as something I don't like. I know all of these things take time to develop...We must empower ourselves!!!
So I rambled there lol...
The Kid
erm....I hope this is not triggering to you and forgive me if it is...I'm just jokingly posting this..there's a TLC song called "Waterfalls"...have you heard of it? :oP
Violet:
You added some other interesting points in there about the possible investment of this lady--that it could lead to a weird marriage leading to immigration issues..as well as long term ones...I also did not think of it that way too...thanks for expressing this caution!!!!
I see how maybe this situation might reflect me:
Perhaps I have been chasing too many people and now must withdraw to study relationships with myself(Oversoul and God) and then my relationships with the world and external environment. I need to validate myself and I don't need to rely on others too much to validate me once this is done. Maybe this will help me to find increased understanding in how my heart chakra energies work and possibly I could heal this a bit more. I know I am loved to a certain degree by a handful of people but it is I who needs to love and respect myself more to develop inner strength of my spirit. I know I will learn how to use my energies better and perhaps not only love myself more but love others too....meaning I will be able to accept and acknowledge all aspects of myself and thus be able to do the same with others...see what they are reflecting back at me and not be so reactive to them if they show me something about themselves that I may judge as something I don't like. I know all of these things take time to develop...We must empower ourselves!!!
So I rambled there lol...
The Kid
erm....I hope this is not triggering to you and forgive me if it is...I'm just jokingly posting this..there's a TLC song called "Waterfalls"...have you heard of it? :oP
Violet:
You added some other interesting points in there about the possible investment of this lady--that it could lead to a weird marriage leading to immigration issues..as well as long term ones...I also did not think of it that way too...thanks for expressing this caution!!!!