Help dealing with a strange Person

[Andrea]

Does anyone have any advice on dealing with an antagonistic, mean, apparently bi-polar or schizoid (Im being serious) person? My husband and I were looking for a lease option rental home. My sister's friend had a house and we decided to move there at the end of our lease.

Well her husband, who runs the show, is the most unreasonable, lying, irrational, non-sensical man I have EVER encountered. He and I have had the most heated arguments. I am a normally calm person, although I can loose my temper when pushed. But this man brings out a side of me that is down-right scary. My husband gets along with EVERYONE and even he wanted to strangle the guy. He is the first person I have ever met that I would classify as being EVIL!!! He seems crazy. He never makes any sense. When I tell him just to deal with my husband because we seems to clash personalities he says "no I want to deal with you" Why? Its crazy.

Well we decided to move out (we moved in Aug 4). But now he is threatening to turn off the electricity (which he illegally turned on and because he wont call them and straighten it out I cant get it in my name).

Okay boo hoo my story and all, but my question is this: What can I do to prevent myself from attracting these type of people, and how can I calm this current debacle down so I can live in peace until we find another house. I am referring to Hyperspace techniques.

Thanks

[Andrea]

HELP!!!!!

[Get Boldened]

There are a few persons who have consistent success with hyperspace techniques. I think they are [user=61]Mercy Now[/user], [user=73]Moon Child[/user], and [user=13]Octahedron[/user]. Try Private Messaging them. I'm sure they will be glad to help.

Or if you subscribe to this: You can send feelings of love bundled up in white energy towards that person. However, in my experience, energy techniques or praying to God never stopped the bad neighbors from harrassing us and they still do. Never let these people have power over you in the first place or you'll have to live near them in constant anger or fear.

[Andrea]

Thanks GB.
Its so hard not to let this guy get the best of me. Every time I say I will not allow him to annoy me he says or does something outrageous. I will try your energy technique though.

[William]

  Protection , ground yourself in brown.  I would not try to send him love or white light as if he is of evil intent he will just turn that energy into more evil believe it or not.  It pisses them off if you send that kind of energy.  The best way is to get away from that person.  Move...  See yourself moved and away.  See yourself protected and strong and --------- See that you understand the lesson that is given to you from this encounter------- There is a lesson here for you.  Please find out what that lesson is no matter what and you will be free after sending it up to your higher self or what ever you believe!  Love yourself!  Understand that this is something you need to understand.  :)  This is about you and your energy!

  We love you!  :)

[Andrea]

Thank You William!!!
I feel better already.

[Astrojewels]

Andrea,

You can do techniques yet the answer lies within what you already know, you said –

I am a normally calm person, although I can loose my temper when pushed. 

Here you have been pushed to activate a particular section of your internal programming, when we are triggered and this is what this man is doing to you, he is triggering you, no you are not like this man, but he is triggering you to intensify the part that surfaces your temper when pushed. This is what societal programming is, you are experiencing illuminati interference, when our programming begins to break down, we face demons, either in physical or non-physical form, coming into your life for negative energy, because at the end of the day you are going to talk about him to your husband, mother, sisters, friends and everyone who will listen, therefore this man is like a germ and you are spreading his force. I agree that you should move away, but until you find another place, look at it with your analytical ability, you have not been there long and look for the real reason why you do not want to stay, and it is not just this man, it will be far more detailed than one person.   

You are obviously going through a change within, a spiritual awakening, perhaps much happier with your life and who you really are, all of us have a ‘back up’ to stay within the square.

This man clearly has issues because of his need to control, he has no control of self, therefore must try to control everyone that comes into his life, classic case of insecurity.

My experience in dealing with this type of mentality is telling him “what he wants to hear”, don’t tell him you are leaving, don’t sign a lease! Within reason just say yes to as much as you can, make all your plans without his essence knowing about it. The day you are ready to move out, knock on his door and say goodbye! I have found this type of personality to always want you to react, that is their programming, when you do not, they are like a rabbit in the spotlight, and if you must pass him, say hello! It will hurt him so bad if you are happy.

[Andrea]

Once again AstroJewels you are right on the money. This situation just has me so frustrated. School starts for my kids next Monday and we have to move to..... I dont know where. I will take your advice and deal with him the least agrravating way. I just hope I dont have to deal with him at all because just the thought of him makes me angry. My hands are shaking as I type this.

I was asking myself as William said, "What have I learned from this situation" haven't come up with anything yet. Now I have another question to ask myself, "Why do I really want to move?"

Thank You.

[Mistress]

Hi Andrea

I really feel sorry for you. I have been through a situation like this and it wasn't very nice.

When faced with such ingrate person, the best thing to do is:

Smile!

Let him have a go at you, keep your calm and smile at him. A smile which says: Do what you have to do if it makes you feel better.

An evil man is used to and likes to see people angry and shouting. Don't give him his
fix of hatred. Moreover everybody has a conscience he knows cutting the electricity is a cruel thing to do, smiling and remaining calm and happy may change is mind after all :)

And it's not such a big deal if he goes on and cuts the lights, find alternatives, get help from neighbours and so on. Or maybe scare him a little with a legal action. Soon enough you will be gone and you'd feel much better afterwards.

 

[Andrea]

Its hard for me to let this go. I just wrote him a 4 page letter. I probably wont give it to him but I do feel better after venting a bit.

I cant shake the "why me?" attitude. I loved this house. I thought we were going to buy it and make our kids a home they could grow up in. I know I sound like a victim but its very hurtful and I hate what my kids have to go through. I wish we could work it out but I try to tell myself there is something better out there for me that doesn't involve an egomaniacal, control feak.

I guess the unknown is what has me down. I have always hated not knowing whats going to happen. I am the type of person that needs a plan and without one I feel lost.