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The easiest way to break up this place is to create in-fighting and doubt between members. Divide and conquer. They do not have the power to make this site go belly up, but they have the possibility to create doubt and confusion.
People have a strong tendency to react strongly and take things the wrong way or come to wrong conclusions. I do not even care too much about whoôs what and when. Focus on what is important, which is to get out the stories and find the truth.
If we are unable to discuss, as adults, and not go down to Janetôs level weôll progress, doing the latter does not serve anyone here searching for the truth.
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I believe at this point that it is common knowledge that the S's double talk, lie, play one end against the other, create confusing situations, etc. In their eyes, if you keep people guessing and just give them enough to come back, you can sustain yourself off of them for a period of time.
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I agree that we should keep the peace here. Lashing out can just turn people away from this place...
Anyways Dr. Acula I find it interesting that they double speak yet Stewart himself said to me "Your double talk does not work on me. I KNOW what you are doing. You had better be careful or you will be in a lot of trouble."
anyways, I was confused and had no idea what he was talking about. I was not double talking anything, perhaps he was seeing his own reflection in me? He has done that before and now my font is stuck in this color hahah
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Good point Canyoudigit.
Everybody sees their perfect reflection in the ones they
a) hate
b) backbite about
c) love
d) praise in their absence
So let us keep up with the objectivity in the exposure and hence be of genuine service to all concerned.
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I have to agree with Shibbator. What a colossal waste of time and energy, turning against one another, when we could be sharing not only our experiences with the Swerdlows, but what we learnt along the way, whether from something positive or negative that we experienced with them.
We can turn this into a place of sharing, support, and healing rather than a ranting, attacking battleground. The Swerdlows would learn from us instead of laughing at our folly. And people coming here to research Expansions will respect the members' experiences/learnings, something they won't do if they are met with all this verbal sparring.
There can always be a learning and growing, if we allow it. We need to feel safe sharing experiences/feelings without fear of being attacked, or the profound healing that that is imminently possible may just remain an open wound longer than it need be.
Just my two cents.
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knmars two cents = 2 diamond cents :)
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