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Women talk three times as much as men, says study
#1
I thought it was interesting that they came up with 13,000 words a day for men in this study. There’s that 13 again.

By FIONA MACRAE

Women talk almost three times as much as men, according to the research.

It is something one half of the population has long suspected - and the other half always vocally denied. Women really do talk more than men.

In fact, women talk almost three times as much as men, with the average woman chalking up 20,000 words in a day - 13,000 more than the average man.

Women also speak more quickly, devote more brainpower to chit-chat - and actually get a buzz out of hearing their own voices, a new book suggests.

The book - written by a female psychiatrist - says that inherent differences between the male and female brain explain why women are naturally more talkative than men.
In The Female Mind, Dr Luan Brizendine says women devote more brain cells to talking than men.

And, if that wasn't enough, the simple act of talking triggers a flood of brain chemicals which give women a rush similar to that felt by heroin addicts when they get a high.

Dr Brizendine, a self-proclaimed feminist, says the differences can be traced back to the womb, where the sex hormone testosterone moulds the developing male brain.

The areas responsible for communication, emotion and memory are all pared back the unborn baby boy.

The result is that boys - and men - chat less than their female counterparts and struggle to express their emotions to the same extent.

"Women have an eight-lane superhighway for processing emotion, while men have a small country road," said Dr Brizendine, who runs a female "mood and hormone" clinic in San Francisco.

There are, however, advantages to being the strong, silent type. Dr Brizendine explains that testosterone also reduces the size of the section of the brain involved in hearing - allowing men to become "deaf" to the most logical of arguments put forward by their wives and girlfriends.

But what the male brain may lack in converstation and emotion, they more than make up with in their ability to think about sex.

Dr Brizendine says the brain's "sex processor" - the areas responsible for sexual thoughts - is twice as big as in men than in women, perhaps explaining why men are stereotyped as having sex on the mind.

Or, to put it another way, men have an international airport for dealing with thoughts about sex, "where women have an airfield nearby that lands small and private planes".

Studies have shown that while a man will think about sex every 52 seconds, the subject tends to cross women's minds just once a day, the University of California psychiatrist says.

Dr Brizendine, whose book is based on her own clinical work and analyses of more than 1,000 scientific studies, added: "There is no unisex brain.

"Girls arrive already wired as girls, and boys arrive already wired as boys. Their brains are different by the time they're born, and their brains are what drive their impulses, values and their very reality.

"I know it is not politically correct to say this but I've been torn for years between my politics and what science is telling us.

"I believe women actually perceive the world differently from men.

"If women attend to those differences they can make better decisions about how to manage their lives."

Other scientists, however, are sceptical about the effects of testosterone on the brain and say many of the differences between the male and female personality can be explained by social conditioning, with a child's upbringing greatly influencing their character.

Deborah Cameron, an Oxford University linguistics professor with a special interest in language and gender, said the amount we talk is influenced by who we are with and what we are doing.

She added: "If you aggregate a large number of studies you will find there is little difference between the amount men and women talk."

Already available in the US, The Female Brain will be available in the UK from April.

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#2

I would agree that you are born with your communication skills, the upbringing having only a little to do with it. Girls generally acquire their talking skills much earlier than boys, and in my experience they ask much more questions while they are toddlers and talk about every single detail of their day when they reach school age. They also share their personal details with girlfriends in high school. I also agree that women discuss more emotional subjects, you never hear a bloke telling his mates how he was really hurt by a comment or action, or seeing a bloke comfort another bloke, in times of sadness blokes shake hands or nod their heads. Women outlive men because they release so much emotion during their life, men bottle it all up and rarely release their creative energy. Ooh, Richard you might have started a battle of the sexes here! If you did a study 9 out of 10 women would talk more than men, it would be a quiet world without us.
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#3
I agree with you and the article. I have observed the same thing about men and women. You might be right about the quiet world without women. Or maybe men would slowly change and become more talkative to fill the void. ;)  
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#4
I agree.
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#5
I think the world is changing, the younger generation is talking more about their feelings but this is also something that must have boundaries, as the reptilians want the boys to have less power to their testosterone, as it will create a more androgynous population, in the last 20 years the female-male energy has certainly changed, personally I believe men should be men and vice versa for women. This topic does create controversy, and to be honest I am not sure where we should draw the line with female – male standards. having daughters I want them feel freedom but also encourage their feminine natural abilities, young women today are being plagued with Dis-ease because they do not know how to release their creative energy which blocks the heart (breasts) and sacral (uterus) chakra, and for men there is this massive increase in prostrate Dis-ease, all these are related to the change of energy of the female-male purpose and the mind-patterns that go with it.
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#6
This is very amusing - I think I read this report somewhere already.  Could I ask, what about a male who talks all the time - he has been diagnosed as Bi Polar - would this have an influence on talk-time?  Perhaps I should read the book when it is available locally.
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