Well, first of all, thanks everyone for all the info and insights on this forum this year - and the questions too! I have learnt a lot about myself this year, gained confidence in myself, and stood up for my ideas and beliefs. The most enjoyable part of the learning for me was to get used to using my computer (all the young'uns are probably in hysterics now) - I had to wait so long to get it and am still plodding away, nervous when doing something new, and elated when I didn't stuff it up. It has been amazing to realise we are on opposite sides of the globe yet we are friends, without having met in person first. Also, again this year, I learned that I can cope with intense physical pain quite well, and come out of it healed.
Thanks also for all the interesting links people have suggested - sometimes I feel like my mind is like a sponge, always finding new ideas, different theories and just plain fun stuff. You have all contributed so much!
As regards Christmas, I don't really look forward to it although I do all the regular things each year - cards, presents, visits, and food of course. However there have been a couple of events in the immediate family which will put quite a different spin on Christmas this year and I'm expecting a lot of lighter energy and more fun.
Cheers everyone, and a Midori & lemonade on ice for me!