09-08-2008, 10:38 AM
I hope I have posted this in the right forum.
Anyway, I would like for you to shed some thoughts on an issue for me.
I have two friends. Lets call them Hansel and Gretel. They have been together for a while and very much in a serious committed relationship. They were planning to get married. The full works.
I am close to both of them and we have a great friendship.
One night, Gretel calls me and she is in tears. She has just discovered that Hansel had been unfaithful for four months (he confessed after the affair was over).
She is shocked and in disbelief. She can't believe that her 'soulmate' has done this to her. I feel sadness for both of them.
After ALOT of talking, Hansel felt that it was best to end the relationship. She felt that 'true soulmates' would never commit infidelity or hurt their s/o like that. (What made it worse is that there was an emotional connection between Hansel and the 'other woman'.)
We deliberated over this theory, and she is now unsure of where she stands.
My questions: Do you think that a soulmate would commit infidelity? Do you think it's best for her to do the Swerdlow exercises (releasing) and try to find her 'correct' partner? Take this as a sign from the universe?
Thoughts? Thank you.
Anyway, I would like for you to shed some thoughts on an issue for me.
I have two friends. Lets call them Hansel and Gretel. They have been together for a while and very much in a serious committed relationship. They were planning to get married. The full works.
I am close to both of them and we have a great friendship.
One night, Gretel calls me and she is in tears. She has just discovered that Hansel had been unfaithful for four months (he confessed after the affair was over).
She is shocked and in disbelief. She can't believe that her 'soulmate' has done this to her. I feel sadness for both of them.
After ALOT of talking, Hansel felt that it was best to end the relationship. She felt that 'true soulmates' would never commit infidelity or hurt their s/o like that. (What made it worse is that there was an emotional connection between Hansel and the 'other woman'.)
We deliberated over this theory, and she is now unsure of where she stands.
My questions: Do you think that a soulmate would commit infidelity? Do you think it's best for her to do the Swerdlow exercises (releasing) and try to find her 'correct' partner? Take this as a sign from the universe?
Thoughts? Thank you.